Once you land in Amsterdam, all doors to freedom are open.
Well known as an open, hedonistic, kinky and welcoming all ways of life next to the normal. This is the place where drugs and prostitutes are legal and presented to all to enjoy. You can purchase the drugs in coffee shops on the streets. Walking around, there is no reason to hide your sexual preferences, the city hugs the LGBT community and suggests a wide variety of clubs, parties, and shops that focus on the community. Swingers will easily find their need in the way of play parties and other gatherings almost every day of the week. If you are into power exchange, fetish or BDSM games you will surely find the right shops and events spread around the city.
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Everybody has its place in Amsterdam and the city stands behind the name it has created for itself as the most permissive and perverted city in the world or at least in Europe. Even if you are plain vanilla, the atmosphere will drive you to explore your sexuality and at least try the coffee shops scene.
The red lights district is a MUST for everybody. It’s a unique experience. All sizes, types, and colors of women present themselves to the people on the street. The protocol is very simple: If the curtain is closed – it means that someone is in, and if it’s open – you’re welcome.
In Amsterdam you can surely have fun 24 hours a day, the places start to get packed around 11 pm and the clubs keep on going until early am hours with the option for an after party until noon. If you are not into day tours, markets, and museums – try checking the clubs section below.
You can start relaxing in a coffee shop with the famous Amsterdam’s weed, where you can smoke for some immediate effect or eat a cookie for some long-term experience. Besides smoking, the locals sure do like their beer and passing the time drinking is another favorite activity
Sameplace, the Eagle, Club Church are basically the big three, but results and audiences vary per the theme of the party/event, The full map of kinky attractions can be found here, or you can read my take on Amsterdam and sex
Clubs, Parties and Bars
Casa Rosso – a great variety of shows performed by talented international artists performing alone or with a partner. The luscious performers integrate sometimes art, sometimes humour into their show and might even interact with the audience directly.
Sameplace – An erotic bar famous for its swingers parties. Sameplace is the café (real one) where almost everything is possible and allowed. They claim to the one place where you can enjoy your fantasies in a safe wayThe Church – Gay bar and club. Many fatishes, theam parties and different rooms. Each day, a different party
Club Danserette is the clubby sister of the Danserette party. With a mix of dance hits from the 90’s, 00’s en 10’s.
The Eagle – 3 floors of hot fun for Gay Men. Every Friday, Saturday and Sunday’s live DJ’s. The hottest men in town! No dress code. Everything goes! A late night hot spot with the hottest men in town.Shopping
Bizarre designs – Custom hand made corsets from a real passionate artist (actually an engineer…) . He creates beautiful bizarre and stunning corset outfits.
The house of pleasure – If you look for luxury lingerie, lingerie-inspired ready-to-wear, erotic luxury and other intimate accessories then you came to the right place. Beautiful and extraordinary lingerie shop, gorgeously decorated in a classic, monumental building in the center of Amsterdam.
Demask – Rubber bliss in all its facets: fashionable, extravagant, extreme or innocent. Dress up; accessorize or play. It’s all here
Webers Holland – Dutch fashion by Desiree Webers. World-famous because of it’s original mix of styles and eclectic taste: avant-garde fashion next to fetish, burlesque, gothic, lingerie, club and party wear.
Breathcatchers – Breathcatchers is a small company designing and producing leather fetish gear
for more kinky shopping, check out our full map of kinky Amsterdam.
Black Body – Fetish wear for men. Rubber, leather, sportswear and neoprene.
MrB Amsterdam – High end leather and rubber clothing range together with an extensive collection of horny boys gear. Huge dildos, unique toys, bondage suit and anything else
Rob Amsterdam – Great shop for toys, anal play, harness, collars and many unusual accessories.
Hotels and accommodation
Mrs Madienne B&B – Located in between Amsterdam centerand Schiphol airport, close to Sloterdijk station . Three rooms in the theme of dungeon, latex and one for transvestite. for more kinky accommodation, check out our full map of kinky Amsterdam.
If you don’t want a special kinky place and just want somewhere to put your head during your vacation, here are some links to make life easier:
- You get more tan 35$ off your first stay with airbnb.
- HotelsCombine helps to understand what is available.
- The free cancellation approach of booking.com is a great thing that we tends to use on our trips.
Special events
Wasteland – Most likely the biggest fetish fantasy event in the world. The most notorious adult playground where the fetish lifestyle is celebrated and applauded by about 6000-8000 visitors, over 40 acts and more than five stages every year. Besides fetish performances there are DJs , VJs, cinema and fashion shows