The kinky guide to San Francisco

Everything you need to know in order to have the most exiting and unconventional trip to San Francisco. Whether you’re into BDSM or if you’re swingers. If you have a fetish of any sort or you are just kinky. We gathered the kinky shopping, the best fetish and BDSM clubs, community munches, all the special events that take place in the city 

Come find it all in the kinky San Francisco map 

Most likely one of the main cities for the kinky oriented tourists. Between hosting the Folsom fair, the enormous pride parade and the whole neighborhood of Castro you will surely find your alternative needs fulfilled.

Clubs, Parties and Bars

Men & Women

Wicked Grounds – The first and maybe the only feitsh cafe in the world that put the kinky community first. A place where you can really come and drink coffee while dealing with your little kinks in the open world. Relaxed atmosphere where you can just sit next to a master and slave doing their stuff in high protocol. The cafe host a wide variety of BDSM and related events

SF Citadel – One of the more solid clubs in the area which is focused purely on BDSM. Welcoming hosts, great atmosphere, facilities and play gear all highly mintained and used/ On goingt parties, workshops and special events. You can seea little bit abou it here . Their up to date calendar can be found here

 

 

Bondage a go go – Is a weekly fetish dance party that takes place every Wednesday at the cat club on Folsom. Come play or come to dance with like minded people leather, latex, ravers, burners, artists, freaks and perverts of all kinds in the 2 bars, 2 rooms, 1 dungeon and 2 dance floors.

 

 

SF Catalyst is available for use by individuals, groups and organizations for events that are in alignment with the mission of the Alliance, “to create a welcoming and supportive environment for members of the SF Bay Area Leather, Fetish, Kink, & Motorcycling communities”.

 

The Armory club – An upscale bar for kinksters of all stripes, the Armory Club often hosts munches, classes and meet-ups for local BDSM groups in their downstairs area. 

Calandars
Swingers

Twist – A club for swingers and single ladies. On Fri + Sat you can find Twist privet party and on Wed they hold Erotic couples yoga. Check their calendar. The location will be send by mail after registration.

 

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Munches
 

The kinky map of San Francisco

Shopping

Men & women

Leather Etc has a somewhat lower price point with a mixed audience of shoppers. They also offer a wider range of corsets and fetish gear for women compared to Mr. S. 

LGBT

MR. S LEATHER – High quality stuff for leather men and the gay community in general. Bondage, leather, toys, rubber, neoprene and much more. Even if you are not in the a natural customer give yourself a treat and come see the lines on the day before Folsom street fair.

Hotels

You can try and find a place to stay at KinkBNB

If you don’t want a spacial kinky place and just want somewhere to put your head  during your vacation, here are some links to make life easier for you:

Special events

Folsom street fair – probably the biggest event in the world for kinky people. A whole week of parties, events and workshops that peak at the Sunday fair with hundred of thousands of participants. Walking in the streets you will be able to see everything! extravagant customs, all sexual preferences, anything you might want to buy, music, beer and much more. The most important thing is that everybody are happy and welcoming

Up your alley – The dirty little brother of Folsom street fair. Rubber, sportswear, biker gear, skinheads and punks are all around. The activity is a bit more extreme and much more gay oriented.  Take place on Dore Alley between Howard and Folsom around the end of July timeframe.