Amsterdam and Sex

If you come to Amsterdam in the right state of mind you will find sex everywhere. Not necessarily in its blunt form like you might experience in the red light district where you see the hookers in the windows and low-grade sex shops everywhere but in a hinted and relaxed way. Somehow there is a common assumption that this city is sexy as hell and “sex” is one of the items you need to tick in your checklist of things to do on your visit.

Well, I don’t fully agree with that.

This city can surely give you some love in various ways yet you will have to pick a little in order to find the better stuff


Handpick the right stores

Nothing special to Amsterdam but you should do your best not to fall into low-quality touristic attractions. Beside smoking aid stuff, it seems like Chinese sex toys and cheap undergarments for women are the souvenirs you suppose to bring from your vacation here. If this is what you are looking for then those stores also have all kind of uniques chocolates, all kind of cheeky games and some tasteful yet naughty accessories. If you look for the high-quality stuff you can visit this list. If you don’t have the time to tour them all here is the best two that you want to visit :

RoB Amsterdam storelogo

Rob AmsterdamLeather, rubber and twisted gear. Mainly catering to the gay community but don’t let it stop you from visiting. It is an exciting place that will stimulate the mind and body of anyone a little kinky.


pleasurements sexy lingerie

The house of pleasure – In one sentence: Every women dream shop. This is high-end lingerie with price ranging from a few hundred euros upwards. A great store on a nice little shopping street. The staff are very friendly and helpful so if its luxury lingerie this is the place in Amsterdam


Clubs and parties

Having sex in an Amsterdam hotel is as exciting as vacation sex can get, but if you’re looking to change up your bedroom routine and get a little outside your comfort zone, there is an active scene in the city outside.

Most of us know to queue up at the big parties like wasteland, Europerve or Boudoir Bizarre  for an epic night out. But if you’re looking for a different experience you should try some of the local events :

  • No, it is not the kitkat but swingers will surely find their kind of people at sameplace
  • Get sleazy in an old school peep show
  • Toughen up for the sex parties and play parties in the Eagle (men only)
  • Club Church, in the Kerkstraat in Amsterdam, is definitely worth a visit and hosts a number of nice parties for fetishists and kinksters alike. Predominantly gay, but also catering for an all genders audience.

One thing to remember is that the term fetish in Amsterdam mostly relate to the dress code (latex and rubber) and not really to the activities which mean that fetish parties are a place to  ‘see and be seen’ in a dancing club environment. If you are looking for